Many people believe that in order to obtain a Domestic Violence Restraining Order that there must be bruises, or punches thrown, but that is not the case. Abuse is about controlling a person completely, and a closed-fist punch is rarely the first form of abuse to occur. Over time, an abuser builds an arsenal of power and control to isolate and victimize.

One major red flag is if you are afraid of your partner. There is no place for fear in a healthy relationship. If you feel your health or safety is in immediate danger, dial 911. To speak with an advocate in your community or to have guidance in formulating a safe exit plan, call the statewide 24/7 DV hotline at 1-866-644-3574.

New Hampshire Courts recognize that there are a wide range of behaviors that constitute Domestic Violence, including:

• Your partner is physically violent or threatens violence by:
  • Threatening to hurt you or someone you love
  • Physically assaulting you
  • Abusing a pet as a way to control you
  • Throwing things at or near you
  • Destroying your property
  • Verbally harassing you
  • Entering your home without permission
• Your partner limits your contact with others by:
  • Taking your cell phone
  • Taking your car keys
  • Preventing you from leaving a room
  • Interfering with your ability to work

If you are a survivor of domestic violence and wish to seek an Order of Protection from the Court , Wescott Law can help. The attorneys here have the knowledge and experience to help you through the process with dignity and humanity. Give us a call today.